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The Holy Prophet
Muhammad — As a mercy for the people of the world
Friday
Khutba by Dr Zahid Aziz,
for Lahore
Ahmadiyya UK, 3 October 2025
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“Thus
it is by Allah’s mercy that you are gentle to them. And if you had been
rough, hard-hearted, they would certainly have dispersed from around you. So
pardon them and ask protection for them, and consult them in (important)
matters. But when you have determined, put your trust in Allah. Surely Allah
loves those who trust (in Him).” — ch.
3, Āl-i ‘Imrān, v. 159 |
فَبِمَا
رَحۡمَۃٍ
مِّنَ
اللّٰہِ
لِنۡتَ لَہُمۡ
ۚ وَ لَوۡ
کُنۡتَ
فَظًّا
غَلِیۡظَ
الۡقَلۡبِ
لَانۡفَضُّوۡا
مِنۡ
حَوۡلِکَ ۪
فَاعۡفُ
عَنۡہُمۡ وَ
اسۡتَغۡفِرۡ
لَہُمۡ وَ
شَاوِرۡہُمۡ
فِی
الۡاَمۡرِ ۚ
فَاِذَا
عَزَمۡتَ
فَتَوَکَّلۡ
عَلَی
اللّٰہِ ؕ
اِنَّ اللّٰہَ
یُحِبُّ
الۡمُتَوَکِّلِیۡنَ
﴿۱۵۹﴾ |
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“Do not
strain your eyes (with desire) at what We have given certain classes of them
to enjoy, nor grieve for them, and make yourself gentle to the believers.” —
ch. 15, Al-Ḥijr, v. 88 |
لَا
تَمُدَّنَّ
عَیۡنَیۡکَ
اِلٰی مَا
مَتَّعۡنَا
بِہٖۤ
اَزۡوَاجًا
مِّنۡہُمۡ
وَ لَا تَحۡزَنۡ
عَلَیۡہِمۡ
وَ اخۡفِضۡ
جَنَاحَکَ
لِلۡمُؤۡمِنِیۡنَ
﴿۸۸﴾ |
Last week I recited a very well-known
verse of the Holy Quran in which it is declared that Allah sent the Holy
Prophet Muhammad as “a mercy to the nations” (21:107), which means to his own
followers, then to all humanity, particularly to all its deprived sections,
such as women, children, orphans, the poor, slaves, etc., and then going beyond
that, to all other worlds, such as the animal world. This week I will expand
further on this theme. The first verse I recited today was revealed after the
battle of Uhud. Some Muslims during that battle had not followed the
instructions given to them by the Holy Prophet, and their action placed the
main Muslim army in a great deal of trouble and put the Holy Prophet personally
in danger. Finally, before the battle ended, the Muslims managed to recover
their position. You would expect the Holy Prophet to be severe and harsh on
those who had gone against his orders. But in this verse God mentions that,
after the battle, the Holy Prophet was gentle to all his followers, as he
always was. And God not only mentions this, but informs the Holy Prophet of the
great benefit of his being gentle. God says that if he had been a strict and
stern leader of his followers, neglecting their feelings, then they would not
have stuck so closely to him, as most of them stuck to him during the trouble
in this battle. Then in this verse Allah urges the Holy Prophet to himself
forgive the Muslims who infringed his orders and also to ask Allah to forgive
them. Moreover, he should continue to seek their opinion in making decisions
affecting the Muslim community.
The second verse I recited tells the
Holy Prophet not to look with desire at the wealth and riches of his rejectors,
wishing that he and his followers possessed the same, nor to feel sad over
their attitude, but instead to look to his followers and show them love and
mercy. The words translated as “make yourself gentle to the believers”
literally mean: lower your wing to them, indicating that he should take them
under his protection, be their guardian, shelter them like a bird sheltering
its young.
Now I will mention some incidents
from the life of the Holy Prophet, showing how great a mercy he was to those
around him. It was said to the Holy Prophet by a Muslim: “send curse upon the
idol-worshippers.” He replied:
“I have not been appointed (by Allah) as an invoker of
curse, but I have been appointed as a mercy.” (Sahih Muslim, hadith 2599)
The Holy Prophet was very conscious
that as a human being he might lose his temper with someone and say that he
wished him something bad, while that person did not deserve it. He once said to
a young orphan girl with displeasure: “May you never grow up and become mature!”
She went crying to the woman who looked after her and told her this. That woman
went to the Holy Prophet and asked him why he had said this. The Holy Prophet
smiled and replied:
“Don’t you know that I have made this agreement with
my Lord, that I said to Him: I am a human being and I become happy just as a
human being becomes happy and I become angry just as a human being becomes
angry. So for any person from among my followers whom I curse, and who in no
way deserves it, let that, O Lord, turn for him into a source of purification
and purity and nearness to Allah on the Day of Resurrection.” (Sahih Muslim,
hadith 2603)
The Holy
Prophet also wanted to avoid punishing anyone who himself admitted that he had
committed a crime. There is a report in Bukhari as follows:
“While I was with the Prophet, a man came and said: ‘O
Messenger of Allah, I have committed a sin which is subject to legal punishment
(ḥadd), so inflict it on me.’ The Prophet did not ask him what he
had done. Then the time for the prayer came and the man offered prayer along
with the Prophet, and when the Prophet had finished his prayer, the man again
got up and said, ‘O Messenger of Allah, I have committed a sin subject to legal
punishment (ḥadd), so inflict on me what is in the Book of Allah.’
The Prophet said: ‘Have you not prayed with us?’ He said: ‘Yes.’ The Prophet
said: ‘Allah has forgiven your sin’, or he said: ‘your punishment’.” (Bukhari,
hadith 6823)
The Holy Prophet always discouraged
people from confessing to sins for which a legal punishment would have to be
applied. That is why he did not wish the man in this incident to provide any further
details about what he had done, and indicated to him that he should seek
forgiveness of Allah in prayer. Please remember that if the man’s sin had
resulted in loss to another party, who suffered due to that man’s action, then
the man would have to seek forgiveness from that person and make up the loss
before Allah would forgive him.
The Holy Prophet was also a mercy for
women. In his time, as you know, when a girl was born, it was a custom that
sometimes she was buried alive by the father due to the shame he felt in
society at a girl being born instead of a boy. The Holy Prophet instructed his
followers about this in these words:
“If anyone has a female child, and does not bury her
alive, nor does he humiliate her, nor does prefer his children to her — meaning
the male ones — Allah will bring him into Paradise.” (Abu Dawud, hadith 5146)
There is an incident reported that
once Hazrat Abu Bakr went to visit the Holy Prophet and he could hear from
outside the voice of Hazrat Aishah speaking to the Holy Prophet loudly in an
argument. When he went inside he caught hold of her in order to slap her, and
said:
“Do I see you raising your voice to the Messenger of
Allah?”
The Prophet intervened to prevent him
from slapping her and Abu Bakr went out angrily. After he left, the Holy
Prophet said jokingly to Hazrat Aishah:
“Look, I rescued you from the man.”
Abu Bakr stayed away for some days, and
then went back and asked permission of the Holy Prophet to enter. He found that
he and Hazrat Aishah had made peace with each other. He said to them: “Bring me
into your peace as you brought me into your war.” The Prophet said: “We have
done so, we have done so” (Abu Dawud, hadith 4999). This hadith is categorised
under “Making humorous remarks”.
The Holy Prophet Muhammad was also a
mercy to slaves. Once a man met a well-known Companion of the Holy Prophet, Abu
Dharr. He noticed that Abu Dharr had a slave with him who was wearing clothes
similar to those which Abu Dharr was wearing. So the man asked him why his
slave was dressed as if he is equal to him? Abu Dharr gave this reply:
“I once abused a man, calling him
by a bad name because of his mother. The Prophet said to me: Abu Dharr! You
called him by a bad name because of his mother. Surely you are a man in whom is
ignorance.”
Abu
Dharr had called this person as “son of a black woman” in an insulting manner,
and the Holy Prophet said that this act was the kind of thing which Muslims
used to do before embracing Islam. That period before they accepted Islam is
known as the time of ignorance. He went on to tell Abu Dharr:
“Your slaves are your
brothers. Allah has placed them in your charge. So whoever has his brother in
his charge, he should feed him with what he himself eats, clothe him with what
he himself wears. And do not burden them with work which overwhelms them. If
you burden them (with such work), then help them in doing it” (Bukhari, hadith
30). Of course, slavery has been illegal for a long time now, but these
instructions of the Holy Prophet are not meant only about the treatment of
actual slaves but apply to anyone in your charge, working under you, as the
Holy Prophet has said here: “whoever has his brother in his charge”.
This
incident was about a male slave. Regarding female slaves the Holy Prophet said
that a man will have a double reward from Allah:
“who has a female slave and he
teaches her good manners, making her manners the best, and he educates her,
making her education the best, then he sets her free and marries her.”
Note
that the Holy Prophet clearly stated that the teaching of manners and the educating
is to be done to the best standard. This hadith occurs in Sahih Bukhari three
times (hadith 97, 2547 & 3011), and in its first occurrence Bukhari has
given it the heading: “A man teaching his female slave and his family.” Bukhari
has himself added “and his family” here to show that if it is necessary for a
man to teach and educate his female slave, it is obvious that he must teach and
educate his own family as well. The hadith also says that the slave woman
should be given her freedom after her education. In the USA slavery was
abolished in 1865, yet freed slaves, male or female, and their descendants were
denied proper education, and certainly they were denied the best education, for
almost another hundred years in parts of the USA. In 1957 the President of the
US had to send federal troops to force schools to admit black students because
until then they only admitted white students and refused to admit black
students.
There
is also a hadith that the Holy Prophet said:
“None of you should address
his slave as ‘my slave (‘abd)’ or ‘my female slave’, and a slave must
not address you as ‘my Lord (rabb)’. The master of a slave should say
‘my young man’ or ‘my young woman’, and a slave should say ‘my master’ or ‘my
mistress’. For you are all slaves and the Lord (rabb) is Allah” (Abu
Dawud, hadith 4975).
This
means that slaves of those times were declared by the Holy Prophet as equal to
their owners.
May Allah grant us success in showing
to the whole world that the Holy Prophet Muhammad came as a mercy for all of it
— Ameen.
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